Time is limited.
Stop being sorry for what you’re missing, because you are always missing something. It’s just that some of those things are rubbed on your face more often than others, so they look valuable.
You made a choice. Either by inaction, or by acting on limited information.
You cannot be at two places at once.
You made the choice that made the most sense at the time, given the information you had.
Since your choices reinforce who you feel you are, and piggyback on who you were earlier, if you are not doing something, it wasn’t meant to be in this moment. That doesn’t mean forever. Things change. Take care, be aware, and choose wisely.